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Hey Neighbor

Run a chat for your street, family, bus, or carpool

A group opens when one person says yes

A moderator is someone in the group — not staff — who volunteers to look after it: they invite new people, keep posts on topic, and handle reports.

Streets, families, school buses and carpools all work the same way. Somebody has to start the chat, confirm the people who belong in it, and keep an eye on it. That person is you.

What a moderator does

  • Invites new people and approves who joins
  • Reviews reported posts and can hide a message or remove someone
  • Pins important announcements to the top of the conversation

And what you never see: Moderators can never see anyone's phone number, and they cannot read private messages.

A few minutes a week

Most weeks it is approving one or two people. Busy weeks are a block party, a snow day, or a change of plans. There is no queue waiting for you and nothing breaks if you step away for a day.

Nothing to install

You can run a group entirely from text messages, the same way everyone else in it does. The web app is there if you prefer a screen.

You are not on call

Hey Neighbor is not an emergency service, and it never asks you to be one. Urgent alerts are a tool you choose to use, not a duty you carry.

Share it from the start

A group with one moderator stops working the moment that person is away — nobody can invite anyone or clear a report until they are back. A second moderator is the cheapest insurance there is.

Starting one

Here is what actually happens, start to finish.

  1. Apply for it. The sign-up page takes your name, your number, and the name of the group — a street, a family, a bus, a carpool. It then asks who will run it: you, or someone you know who has agreed to. That is the application; it does not create anything yet, and nobody in the chat hears from us.
  2. We open it by hand. Groups open one at a time, and a person at Hey Neighbor confirms each application. Then one of two things reaches whoever will run it:
    • A text offering you the group. Reply JOIN and it is yours. The offer lasts seven days.
    • Or we authorize you to set it up yourself. Sign in, and Set up your group appears in your menu. Name the group and, if you like, a second moderator.
  3. You invite everyone. Nothing is sent to anyone until you do. Each person gets one text from you and joins by replying JOIN. From then on you can rename the group, add a second moderator, or hand it on, all from the moderator page.
Start a group

A minute. Step one, above.

Already authorized to set one up? Set up your group.